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Stagnant – Stuck – Anxiety – What it Takes to Improve Your Situation

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What does it really take to look past your “stuck” situation right now? It takes experience of going through it a couple of times and then saying, okay I take ownership of my situation!

Acceptance is our keyword for today’s topic. It takes acceptances to move on or keep moving from any tough situation. It’s all perspective at the end of the day. You can see your current situation as glass half full or glass half empty. As in you can make your situation bad or worst.

I get it though, when you are in the situation where the entire environment is super negative, it’s hard to think positively. Mainly when anything you do leads to none of your goals. You start putting yourself down and telling yourself that you are just not good enough!

Yes, I go through that too! When there is too much pressure of work or let’s say I just take on too much to prove I am “good enough”… perfect example of jumbling my thoughts, and taking on too much than I can chew. That’s when anxiety hits.

What to do in those situations? Accept… accept that it will all end one day, and just like the person next to you, there will be an end to you. That means, there is no reason to hold on to these negative thoughts, all you can do is keep pushing and moving forward. Your situation will change eventually if you put in the work to make those small changes.

We make a mistake of always focussing on the end goal! However, life is simple. It’s about making smaller changes in your life to get those end results.

For example, I see a software engineer or a product manager making a certain amount of money and living an easy lifestyle. I can’t wake up tomorrow morning and hope that I am a software engineer / product manager. I need to make those changes / put in sacrifices to get to that level to achieve that lifestyle. There will be many road blocks! Many, many, many road blocks — the main point is, take breaks, but don’t stop!

You don’t see results right away, at least I haven’t but, 10 years later, you will look back and think that struggle was required!

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Pandora Ring dilemmas

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I finally got the ring I wanted!! A Pandora ring. The ring doesn’t mean anything. It’s not a commitment. It’s not a promise ring. It’s not for a milestone. It doesn’t solidify anything. But I received it because I wanted one.

I don’t wear many rings. Heck, I don’t wear any rings. But when I wore this one it made me feel a bit powerful. I felt a sense of validation. Few seconds later I felt a bit tied so I decided it looked better on my index finger rather than my ring finger.

Then few seconds later, I thought the the ring makes a great fashion piece and I will wear it time to time when ever I feel like it. Why am I feeling all this emotions? Well I have the answer for that too.

I wish the ring had a clarity letter attached to it. I wish it said something a long the lines of you received this because I felt like you deserved it rather than you received it because you asked for it. Now I am wearing a ring around without meaning.

I don’t wear rings so why I am wearing this around. Well first of all it’s Pandora so this beautiful piece is hard to take off. But other than that it lacks meaning. If I had bought it for myself it would have had more meaning than it has now.

DLA

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