Took A Little Break Because of Anxiety

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My anxiety began when my father passed away. I use to always have anxiety but, not as badly. Anxiety took over the day I knew he will no longer be with us. It started to get worst day after day. I realized I can’t work like this. If I let it take over, I can’t work or focus. That’s when I started listening to podcast and really focused on work.

I opened many doors by only focussing on work. However, still I get some serious anxiety hitting me time to time. That’s when I have to just step away and do things that relaxes my mind. I just relaxed my mind by sleeping early, doing things completely unrelated to work and putting on some good music.

A lot little things triggers my anxiety. Fear of sustainability is one. Fear of not being able to keep up with work is another. Third and a big one is memories of my father, which I can’t control. All of these feelings together does not feel good both physically and mentally. That is when I need to completely disconnect and give myself some time before I can step back into it.

So I hope all of you were staying safe and taking the time to disconnect time to time.

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The Plan is Never Available – Takes Risks!

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Isn’t it funny, no one wants to be the first one to take the chance? You always want to be the last one to do it unless you know for sure that you are benefiting from the opportunity.

That’s a safe way to do anything in life, right? Don’t get me wrong, you rather be safe. You rather have money in your bank than gamble it all away. However, you want to take calculated risks too. You want to take low to medium level risks so you see a stable growth.

I am surprised that many people don’t invest in anything, let alone RRSP / Roth IRA. Yes, people don’t invest in RRSP’s / ROTH IRA’s, that’s a mistake at this day and age when so much material on financial literacy is available. You want to be putting money away for when you are older and unable to work like you do today. This money will be taxed but, at a lower amount, hence, you are saving money.

People shy away from research and therefore are afraid of the unknown. Some people want a complete investment plan infront of them, before they can invest in stocks. They want a stock pick list and someone telling them which stocks to invest in. Well, hard truth, that will never happen because, the stock market is volalite. The market will go up and down but, you have to buy and hold some long term stocks. That’s why you need to do your own research. I use to find it excrutiating at first too. But as you start researching and buying stocks, you understand the flow.

Some people have a lot of money in their back or enough for a down payment. But, they are afraid of job security. They don’t want to buy the home thinking they won’t be able to to sell it in the future or rent it out. They even think how much the maintenance cost will be. However, before making that assumption, did this person do their research in the area? How much it rents for? How demanding the area is or let alone, talk to a realtor who may have an easy of option of buying the place back if they want to sell it early.

Isn’t it funny, buying a car for instance, is the worst decision in some cases as there are cost saving alternatives available such as bussing, and uber. However, we don’t think as much before purchasing a car. We think about the convinience. But a car is literally a dent in your pocket. There is car insurance, gas and maintenance–in other words, all expenses. Yet, buying a property, which most people are afraid of doing becuase, of the research, legal work, and the assumed risk–returns an income if you sell it and or rent it out.

People live on assumptions. Their assumption create self doubts for them. They want to follow others footstep but fail to seek out a mentor and resources. I think it’s time we change that and start taking some well calculated risks.

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Follow Along to Start Dropshipping in One Week

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I am going to try her steps this week. This is a good starting guide. Let me know if you try it too or why you won’t…

Share your thoughts!

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Community Management – Social Media

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I have learned over the years that there is a lot community managment that is involved in keeping the engagement on your blogs/social media flowing. People are engaged when there is communication! I love that you all write comments and interact with me on my blogs. Honestly, I realized that actually helps so much for a creator to keep moving forward.

For example, on my blog of starting my YouTube channel, I received so much positive and encouraging comments. This shows that being real and vulnerbable with yoru readers builds a connection and creates a support system. I love hearing from your all and hearing your experiences.

If we don’t share our own journey, failures, and successes, other people will not be able to learn. That is exactly what I try to do with these blogs. I try to keep you all focussed and motivated for your own passions and goals. I want you to get to the lifestyle you are all striving to get to and I know you guys are doing a great job!

Thanks for showing me so much love and support! I hope to share more of journey as I take on more risks for my own personal growth!

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Stagnant – Stuck – Anxiety – What it Takes to Improve Your Situation

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What does it really take to look past your “stuck” situation right now? It takes experience of going through it a couple of times and then saying, okay I take ownership of my situation!

Acceptance is our keyword for today’s topic. It takes acceptances to move on or keep moving from any tough situation. It’s all perspective at the end of the day. You can see your current situation as glass half full or glass half empty. As in you can make your situation bad or worst.

I get it though, when you are in the situation where the entire environment is super negative, it’s hard to think positively. Mainly when anything you do leads to none of your goals. You start putting yourself down and telling yourself that you are just not good enough!

Yes, I go through that too! When there is too much pressure of work or let’s say I just take on too much to prove I am “good enough”… perfect example of jumbling my thoughts, and taking on too much than I can chew. That’s when anxiety hits.

What to do in those situations? Accept… accept that it will all end one day, and just like the person next to you, there will be an end to you. That means, there is no reason to hold on to these negative thoughts, all you can do is keep pushing and moving forward. Your situation will change eventually if you put in the work to make those small changes.

We make a mistake of always focussing on the end goal! However, life is simple. It’s about making smaller changes in your life to get those end results.

For example, I see a software engineer or a product manager making a certain amount of money and living an easy lifestyle. I can’t wake up tomorrow morning and hope that I am a software engineer / product manager. I need to make those changes / put in sacrifices to get to that level to achieve that lifestyle. There will be many road blocks! Many, many, many road blocks — the main point is, take breaks, but don’t stop!

You don’t see results right away, at least I haven’t but, 10 years later, you will look back and think that struggle was required!

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Second Wave – Be Prepared For Unemploymeent / Lay offs?

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Two day delay but here I am once again! So it’s going to be a hard hit everyone so be prepared.

The economy already went through the first wave and saw a round of lay offs. Lay offs are not plesant. Long back, I was layed off from a position. The compnay was doing “Re-Org” which, basically means they are trying to save cost. At that time, I didn’t have a job for 6 months. Good thing, I wasn’t completely alone. I had family support and a roof to stay.

Looking back, I couldn’t find a job for 6 months because, I lacked experience, I didn’t know where to look, how to properly set up my resume, didn’t know anyone or have any connections, and the last but the main point, it is hard to find a job! You have to keep looking and trying until you land a position because, more than 1,000’s others are also interested and trying their luck on the same position.

Second wave will be a hard hit everyone so be prepared! When I say be prepared, I mean to say, please have a second source of income or at least update your skills.

Friends saying, the purchases of appliances such as fridge has gone up, why? Because, pepole are preparing to stack up for the second wave. My doctor friends and family are stating that they are cutting health care worker hours, just to save cost at this time. Even depressing enough, we are in debt as a country!

$768 billion – According to data from Statistics Canada, net debt (gross debt minus assets) as of March 2019 was approximately CAD$768 billion. With a total GDP of approximately CAD$2.2 trillion, Canada’s overall net-debt/GDP ratio is about 34%.”

This is concerning and depressing as more covid patients are coming in, yet we are cutting cost of health care workers.

So for your own good! I want you to research a skill that will be valued at this time. Save and invest your money. Invest in yourself. I want you to look up different ways of passive income. Try putting up your skills on Fiverr and Skillshare. Try developing a course on Udemy. I want you to have that extra flow of income coming in. It’s not easy but, I want you to atleast try for it. Growth is key!

Thank you for your love and support as usual!

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