Negative Nancy – Please Don’t be one

Hello World,

It’s in some people’s DNA to be negative about everything. I have seen it in my own home where certain individuals are not big on risk taking. There are certain underlying subjectivities there. For example, it could be just how they are raised, it could be lack of financial confidence, bad experience with taking risks and/or they are just not as driven and are comfortable with their situation.

I have always been driven in all aspect of reaching my objective and making things happen. In my personal growth, none of my achievements came through conventional routes. That means, I saw a lot of failure before I got to my success. I heard a lot of people say that I could not do it or make it. When you hear those criticisms, do yourself a favor, don’t react! Take that all in and improve. Say you will learn it and do better. Every rejection made me stronger.

Recently, I am coming across a lot of people who are just done with this pandamic, so much so that they are not even taking in the joy of the festive season. So what the season is not as joyful this year or not “normal” … deal with it! Make it with what you have!

Yes, people are so negative towards any change that they have a hard time of accepting and adopting to new change or new norm. If this is the new norm then make it fun with what you have! Literally, it is just your perspective at the end of the day. People in east Asia, die on the street begging for food. You get to be comfortable at home with your close ones, if not close ones then atleast you can buy a $5 sandwich which a ton of people cannot!

I absolutely don’t sympathize with people with negative nancy attitude! Please reflect and always try to see the situation in positive light.

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Stay at home Motivation

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The stay at home transition has been tough for all even if you were a home body. A lot of you lost your jobs or are on temporary lay offs. This has caused unnecessary anxiety and pain.

It’s harder said then done, but change your mindset. Think about the opportunities you have that you did not in your daily busy “normal” life. For example, a lot of people are finally getting to spend a lot of time with their families. Some of you finally have the time to learn a new skill and get certified.

The world is your oyester. Be mindful of your pressense. Don’t let go or give up! Follow all the health tips, stay safe and take this time to develop your self further.

There will be all sorts of hiccups in life that you have to deal with yourself. Better way to look at this current hiccup is, everyone in the world is one unit and dealing with it.

My goals are self improvement related, both physical and mental. I am trying to learn new things daily, obtain new skills and become physically fit. I am holding myself accountable and completing my self improvement tasks daily. I want to come out of this as a stronger person. You can do it too!

I started waking up daily at 6:30 – 7 am. This has helped to gather my thoughts, have a bit of time before I get working. I use that time to think about my day and mentally prepare for it. I also fit in a fitness/workout session within that 2 hours frame before it is 9 am.

Always try to envision your future and plan for it mentally. Even jot down ideas if you can. This will help you stay prepared, even if it’s a little bit. You know what will happen and how you will handle it. Stay organized!

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Bad at Dating at 30 – focussed on Career

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There I said it! I loose interest these days…

The Tinder, Bumble, coffee meets bagel and Hinge is not doing it for me.

I use to be really opposed to having a casual relationships, but it all make sense now! When you are too occupied and focused on your career… you will not be able to invest in any other aspect of your life.  This is because you won’t be able to give those part of your life your best, 100%.

I am not searching for perfection but what is the point in something if you have to live it half hearted?

All this means is, I would need to find a partner who is on the same page! The ambition level has to be the same along with other compalitiy levels and that is never the case these days.

I feel after you reach a certain age you become content with a lot of things. You see life differently. Your goals changes. I pass up on very good people. Funny thing to notice, before my excuse to myself were that I was too busy with work. But now it’s just no interest! I have no interest in connecting, getting too personal, and or carrying any other person’s emotions at this point!

I am way too focused at my work. I am focused in building an empire, a better future for myself.

Working hard and earning the success is a different high! Working hard and earning financial freedom on your own terms is a different high!

At a certain age, you just stop caring about what people say and or think because, it really does not matter. You have a timeslot and it’s limited so make your future as bright as you can.

I need you all to try it! Be focused and make it happen.

Until next time…

Dla

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How to Track your FIVE Power Goals

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I have been ranting about this Five Power Goal daily gain towards your final goal since a few days now.  I want you to really incorporate it in your everyday routine.  Yes, I expect you to wake up in the morning, be grateful, and start your day by listing Five important things that needs to be completed today! Yes, TODAY!

Hold on a second! This list is not your grocery list or your shopping list.  This is list should be helping you obtain a future goal.  This list is a bigger goal segmented into pieces.

For example, you want to start your own Salon business.  Okay great!  What is the first thing you need to determine?

• Maybe researching the area you want the Salon to be located?
• Researching the competition in the area?
• Finding people with skills that you require for your Salon?
• Finding suppliers for the equipment and products for your Salon?
• Registering the Business?

The list will be never ending but I want you segment one goal of yours into five parts every day. However, the catch is that you have to achieve these segmented goals every day.  You can’t leave it incomplete so be mindful of time.

Let’s start with a goal today and not procrastinate for once!

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Motivation for your Goals

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This is a follow up to my last blog! So if you haven’t read it yet, there here it is for you …

My last blog was about setting FIVE short power goals daily to help you achieve your ultimate goal.  I just completed my first goal, which was one of my MBA project that is due tomorrow.  The Funny thing is I was having trouble starting the project!  However, the rule of the FIVE Power goals is to getting it done—that means you cannot slack.

I had to start my first Power Goal today and I did not feel like it. I was procrastinating and shifting my mind towards other unimportant tasks.  Then I looked at my FIVE Power goals and thought, if I wait any longer than I cannot move on to my next task.  Without a choice, I started my project.  After half an hour, I began to actually enjoy what I was learning.  I kid you not; I ended up contributing more than I thought I would today.  This actually freed up time for other tasks on hand.

I am actually feeling good about my first task for the day.  I am way ahead of time, I contributed more, and since I was enjoying the material, I ended up producing quality product.

The Five Power Goal golden rule of getting it done really motivates you to move forward and keep achieving.  Knowing that I have done a good job on my first goal has me pumped up to completing all my other goals for the day.

If you have to do something today then don’t wait on it. Don’t think of how to perfect it.  Just start!  Always remember, it’s not about perfection, it’s about GETTING IT DONE!

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