Family Obstacles Can Create Anxiety

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Has this ever happened to you? Are you career driven but, you live with your family or you have your own family, or you have certain obstacles that just get in the way.

Story time! One of my friends live with her family. It’s a family of five, mom, dad, brother, and sister-in-law and my friend. Recenly, my friend, let’s call her Mary… Mary’s brother got married and now Mary has more family members she has to share her interest with. Her mom and dad was hard enough to deal with but, now she has her brothers family. The entire family is a bit conservative and always checks up on Mary when she is out with her frineds or shopping, etc. Think about it, Mary is past 30 and the family still checks up on her to see what she is doing.

Sounds sweet, because, family should always check up on each other but, when the check in’s become interenece that creates a problem.

Mary’s family interference has always stopped her from progessing in life. You will see many people who are successful, move out very early in there life. I am not saying that should be a goal but, if your family is always in your case then maybe it’s a good thing to draw the line between your passion and your family. In Mary’s case, she is not able to move out. She did not get to excel very far in her career because, her family always stopped her from partaking or pursuing her dreams.

From a conservative families perspective, they are just looking over and protecting their daughter. However, parents should realize that needs to stop at a certain age and kids should learn to take control of their own lives and make their own mistakes.

Mary has developed anxiety from this occurance. The pressure of matching up to everyones expectation at home while, supressing her own desires and goals has led her to develop serious depression. Now she has a part time continuing with work for long periods of time. Mary has to take gaps, take mental health days, and ask to become part time in many instance.

This becomes a stoppage in her life where she can’t earn alot of money because, of her mental health challenges.

Now Mary is a relationship where she finds a bit of peace. She feels like she can get away from her problems and the pressure at home. She doesn’t have to meet so much expectations in this relations. Despite what she feels the relationship is clearly not good for her. The boyfriend is also not ambitious, does not have a stable job, and says she doesn’t see them as a long term couple. She’s just with him because, she’s feels more at peace with him and feels that she will be able to change her mind in the future.

Mary’s thinking is blurred now as she has several problems. One, her family has expectations that she feels she needs to meet. Two, she does not know how to make more money with her career or progess towards success. Making more money will atleast help her become independent. Third, she’s in a really toxic relationship.

Any guidance offered by her friends are just becoming overwhelming for her. She is having a hard time processing over load of information. Her friends are telling her to leave her boyfriend as he is just straying her along. Mary is unable to leave the relationship as that’s the only time she gets to disengage from her family. Mary’s family is pressuring her to get married soon, or keep tabs on when she goes out. The family is also upset and scared of her taking the wrong steps which will hurt her even more. Not being able to make more money is getting in the way of her moving out and finding more balance.

When people have problems from all aspects of life, they need to take a step back and realize that they need to take it one step at a time. If there are several big problems and they are all connected then prioritize your issues and break them down.

In order to make money, Mary has to save money. She has to make some sacrifices to cut down on her expesnes. In order for her parents to understand her point of view, she needs them on her team. Instead of pushing them away, create that bond and spend time with them. That way they will at least be open to hearing her out. When Mary understands that there are clear differences between her boyfriend and her, she should count her losses and just let him go. This all sounds easy from an outside perspective but it’s hard for the victim to comprehend and process.

If you are ever in a situation where you have several problems at once. Do one thing, work on your mindset. Keep your calm and know that everything will turn around. Tackle your problems one by one.

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What I Currently Invest In

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I don’t know why people are often scared of sharing what they are investing in. Yes, don’t give out the actual manufacturer information for the products you are selling for your business. This makes sense because, other people can copy and the demand for your product will slowly become less. However, you are allowed to share things like stocks and real estates or other ideas that everyone can participate.

I believe in a community system. I like to share and learn. That’s the best way of learning for me. No secrets! You have a question then just ask, you will have an answer if I have the answer. You share your learnings and I share mine and we both grow together.

I currently invest in real estate. I look up properties using Redfin or contact various real estate agent to get listings to find properties I can afford.

In addition, I invest in stocks and ETFs. There is a lot of stocks I invest in but, I made the most money on my Tesla stocks as I bought them early while they were low. I also buy a lot of ETF’s as they pay dividends. The strategy here is to keep investing in dividends and over the cours the dividends will become an income. It’s hard to see the impact if you buy on one or two shares of ETF’s. I would suggest taking an ETF like IShare XDIV and investing a $500, or $1000, each month or year, depending on how much you can put aside. The compunt effect will help you earn a lot more dividends as the time goes by.

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Up Your Salary – Story Time

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We all have financial goals. In order to get to those the first and foremost trick is to getting paid more so you can save and invest and still take care of your investments. Your goal should be to increasing your salary every year. Instead of telling you to upgrade your skills and research on skills that will land you another high paying job or make you more sought after, I will just share a story. I hope this story encourage and motivates you.

I know someone who splurges like no tomorrow. She is eating out at fancy dinners every single day and partying with friends. Just by looking at her social media you would think she is making a waste of her life by spending so much on night outs and expensive products. However, she started off being an accountant analyst at Deloitte, soon she become a senior Deloitte analyst.

She had several accounting jobs in between where she upgraded her skills and picked up on various financial standards that companies to comply with. As you know many companies today quickly need to adapt to the 2020 IFRS standard to avoid legal issues. She adopted these skills set which are desired for most of the multi national companies right now. Soon she became a accounting manager at a large telecommunications company in Canada, which paid her about 90K to 100K.

Within a year of working at that company she networked and went back to Deloitte as a manager and earned 100K to 115K. She stayed with Deloitte for 8 months and then Rakuten picked her up and now she makes 124K per year. She did all this within a span of less than 2 years.

Many of our job situations are dependent on many factors, however, I want this story to motivate you and think about your financial goals. Where do you want to be in the near future with your salary? Are you taking those actions to make the change happen?

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Second Wave – Be Prepared For Unemploymeent / Lay offs?

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Two day delay but here I am once again! So it’s going to be a hard hit everyone so be prepared.

The economy already went through the first wave and saw a round of lay offs. Lay offs are not plesant. Long back, I was layed off from a position. The compnay was doing “Re-Org” which, basically means they are trying to save cost. At that time, I didn’t have a job for 6 months. Good thing, I wasn’t completely alone. I had family support and a roof to stay.

Looking back, I couldn’t find a job for 6 months because, I lacked experience, I didn’t know where to look, how to properly set up my resume, didn’t know anyone or have any connections, and the last but the main point, it is hard to find a job! You have to keep looking and trying until you land a position because, more than 1,000’s others are also interested and trying their luck on the same position.

Second wave will be a hard hit everyone so be prepared! When I say be prepared, I mean to say, please have a second source of income or at least update your skills.

Friends saying, the purchases of appliances such as fridge has gone up, why? Because, pepole are preparing to stack up for the second wave. My doctor friends and family are stating that they are cutting health care worker hours, just to save cost at this time. Even depressing enough, we are in debt as a country!

$768 billion – According to data from Statistics Canada, net debt (gross debt minus assets) as of March 2019 was approximately CAD$768 billion. With a total GDP of approximately CAD$2.2 trillion, Canada’s overall net-debt/GDP ratio is about 34%.”

This is concerning and depressing as more covid patients are coming in, yet we are cutting cost of health care workers.

So for your own good! I want you to research a skill that will be valued at this time. Save and invest your money. Invest in yourself. I want you to look up different ways of passive income. Try putting up your skills on Fiverr and Skillshare. Try developing a course on Udemy. I want you to have that extra flow of income coming in. It’s not easy but, I want you to atleast try for it. Growth is key!

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What is Required in a Good Partner?

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First of all you need to be a good partner to yourself. Yes, you need to be content with where you stand in life. You need to at least know your plans and goals. Don’t be a pushover and lost. If you don’t have it figured which, most of us have not… try to plan and know what you want.

Many people who are always lost and lack initiative would tell you, yes but, everyone is lost, you just don’t know what will come your way next. That is true, but at the same time, you need to know what you like and don’t and stay true to your values.

Right off the bat, good money sense! You don’t want someone who doesn’t know what they are doing with their money. You don’t want someone drowning in debt, you don’t want someone who is not saving! Also, you don’t want someone who doesn’t have a retirement fund.

Trust/Understanding. You need to find a best frined in the partner. They need to understand your drive and purpose. Again going back to my first point, you have to have drive and purpose. You have to keep on working on yourself. Growth is the key to life.

Understanding comes from open communication. Don’t be afraid to have deep conversation so you both can learn more about each other on an intellectual and emotional level. This will allow both of you to keep yourself honest.

I feel those are the core for a good partner. Obviously, there are more things to add per your own personal preference.

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Hold ON – PAY OFF YOUR DEBT FIRST!

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You must have heard of that teenager who borrowed money to invest in the stock industry. He was over 100K in debt. He took his own life after due to stress, depression and the fear that he cannot pay the loan off.

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Please do not invest with debt on your plate. That’s bad financial advise. Some people can afford to, those some people are multi millionaires. They have financial advisors and know exactly what they are doing. You on the other hand, need to not pay the heavy interest on any loan. Pay it off or work towards paying it off.

Holding a long term credit can hurt you as well. I know you are paying it off but, you have have to always stay in the minimum 50% always paid of the balance you owe, in order for your score to remain “good”.

Now here is way! Learn how to create different income flows. Sell your old items, sell items you make, make youtube create a following, or just create FIVERR and sell your skills.

Few posts ago, I showed you how to create FIVERR. I created a profile myself to show you my journey. I will be documenting my journey on FIVERR: https://t.co/9SL0npiBk8?amp=1

I intend to sell my excel knowledge and dashboard with this gig. What bout you? What will you sell on Fiverr. It’s absolutely free. There is a small commission FIVERR takes when you sell these items.

Once, you create traction and start earning, you can easily pay off your debt with other streams of income and create a great financial strategy.

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Want to Become a Data Scientist?

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You Have To Have a Digital Currency – I am not talking Crypto

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You have to have a digital currency at today’s time. Although, I am all for Crypto – buy your Etherium and monitor the trends. However, I am not speaking about that. I am saying, that you have to have a following in today’s generation to keep up. A following on social media, and other digital platforms. Anything that gives you a positive traction towards your content.

The following actually validates your work and brings you more exposure to your brand. This helps your business grow with word of mouth. Word of mouth is the strongest form of advertising and marketing your brand. First and foremost, it’s free, sceond word of mouth usually comes from a reliable source such as your friends and family. Hence, it builds trust quicker than other branding techniques.

The number of following you have becomes a digital currency. The more you have the more valuable you are, the more work you get, and the more fortune you make. That’s one reason why people make a lot of money doing affiliate marketing and or starting a YouTube channel while posting daily. Posting daily creates traction.

Traction is important for the content you put out. It gets you notice. But the key to creating traction is consisitency, schedule, persistency and quality. You can’t give up, no matter how boring it is! It’s a part of building a brand, along with putting out good quality content for validation and shares.

So if you are any type of creative or business owner, I need you to focus on your social media strategy. A strategy good enough to bring you traction. At first you will just receive followings/views but, in the long run it will make you money.

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What Free Sources Are You Using for Marketing? TIKTOK?

Hello World,

This quarantine has been tough for all of you. Specifically the small business owners. I have been keeping safety in mind and not heading out much. Hence, all my shopping has been from digital platforms.

However, I want to know what platforms are you all using to promote your small businesses? I have been on TIK TOK a lot lately which made me realize it’s power on free promotion. If you post 4 times a day, showcasing your products and services, you will increase your traction and sales.

I would suggest to go ahead and create a TIK TOK right now, if you haven’t done so already. Then post four times daily and try to find that balance of when you are receiving the most tracktion (likes, views, etc.). It won’t happen over night but consistency is key.

Here are some tips:

Post about your product/Service – do you make it by hand? how do you manufacture the item?

Your method of deliveryor process of packaging

Share business tips and ideas

Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable and share your mistakes

Let me know how it goes and your ideas as well!

Thank you,

DLA

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Masters Vs. Practical

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Looking for insight! What do you think some practical things that are in business that Masters of Business does not teach you?

Let me know your thoughts! let’s make this insightful because I want to hear from you!!!

 

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